Gatherings
Find Your People
Six people. A facilitator who has also lost a parent. A video call. A topic. Not therapy. Not a support group with that clinical feeling.
Just honest conversation with people who understand the specific thing you're carrying.
Six people
Small enough that everyone speaks. Large enough that you're not alone.
One topic
Chosen in advance. So you can decide if it's the right room for you right now.
A facilitator who knows
Not a therapist. Someone who has also lost a parent and knows how to hold space.
Upcoming gatherings
Grief and siblings
When you all lost the same person but you're all grieving something different. The family dynamics that shift. The ones who don't talk about it.
James Okafor
Lost his father in 2019. Has facilitated 40+ gatherings.
April 9, 2026
7:00 PM EST · Video call · 90 min
Losing a difficult parent
The complicated grief that comes when the relationship was complicated. The relief you weren't supposed to feel. The love that was always tangled.
Priya Menon
Lost her mother in 2021. Specializes in ambiguous loss.
April 14, 2026
8:00 PM EST · Video call · 90 min
The parent who never knew my adult self
When they died before they could see who you became. The career, the partner, the person. The conversations you never got to have as equals.
Sofia Marchetti
Lost her father at 23. Has run this topic 12 times.
April 17, 2026
7:30 PM EST · Video call · 90 min
Grief in the first year
The firsts. First birthday. First holiday. First time you forgot, for a moment, and then remembered. For those still inside that first year.
Marcus Webb
Lost his mother in 2024. Has been through the first year.
April 22, 2026
6:30 PM EST · Video call · 90 min
Long grief — five years and beyond
When the world has stopped asking how you're doing. When it's been years and it still catches you. For those whose grief has grown older.
Amara Diallo
Lost her mother in 2016. Has been carrying it a long time.
April 24, 2026
7:00 PM EST · Video call · 90 min
When grief hits differently as a parent
Raising children without the grandparent who should be there. Seeing your parent in your child. Wanting to talk to them about the hardest job.
James Okafor
Lost his father in 2019. Has facilitated 40+ gatherings.
May 1, 2026
8:00 PM EST · Video call · 90 min
“The relief of finding people who haven't stopped thinking about it.”
From a gathering participant